How do you know when you’re being played???
This is indeed a VERY good question and I wish I could say that the answer is simple…but unfortunately it is not a simple answer. However, I will tell you this if you know that you are being played yet you continue to stick around, then you technically aren’t being played you are instead (truth moment) playing yourself!
Honestly that’s the case most of the time because people are so blinded by their own ambitions that they end up shooting themselves in the foot. When I say own ambitions I am referring to the people that try to change the one that they are with i.e. get them to stop partying, open up more, stop sleeping around etc…So it is common for the people that love a challenge to be the ones that get played the most because that ego will kill you EVERY time!
The best game is that which you don’t know is being ran on you and this is the only time that you can blame the other person. How will you know?
Well if they are just too good to be true for the first couple of months then it’s a possibility.
If they willfully go along with everything you say then that’s a possibility. (or a sucker)
If they are extremely secretive and emotionally closed off all the time then maybe.
If they tend to get missing and show up out of nowhere then maybe.
Let me stop there before I incriminate myself somewhere in this post! Seems like anytime I write a post anyone that I have dated thinks that I am talking about them.
Normally all the signs are there right in front of your eyes but you choose to look the other way for your own selfish reasons.
It appears that you are more guilty than they are!!!